Sun, 04 Dec 2011 11:35:50 -0800WeeblyFri, 02 Dec 2011 07:42:12 -0800http://www.teckian.com/2/post/2011/12/new-rates-for-flutterby-counseling.htmlHow often have you thought:  "gee, I could really use someone to talk to right now?"    Maybe just to bounce some ideas, perspecitives, get another angle at how a curse could actually be a gift in that moment?

That's where I come in.  - fluttering by......willing to be still with you in the moment so maybe some rough places can be made smooth again.

$45 for 45 minutes.  xoxo ]]>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 05:18:40 -0800http://www.teckian.com/2/post/2011/08/when-wishing-it-is-not-enough.html  How often have you heard the term:  

"I wish....."

or

"I wish it weren't so"

What is actually involved in making a wish come true?  It is a matter of feeling into the situation from all sides and from within to without.  This happens by slowing everything down in order to feel it, see it, think about it, ponder it {pondering is a way to play with how a wish might feel once it is in place in one's life}.

Please see "The Wishraft"  posted this morning on my Art Blog:
http://www.tobineckian.com/2011/08/the-wish-raft/

How do I know when it is time to make a conscious wish about something?  When I notice I have a twinge/longing come up when I see a picture of something like someone with a new dog or bird.  This is not just wishful thinking.  It is the quality of twinge.  And it will keep coming up to be looked at.  It will come up at in all kinds of situations;  driving down the road seeing road signs I might see something on the side of a truck like "pets are us" or  a friend posts a picture of Facebook which sends me into a tizzy type of feeling.   

Everything in my world is significant.   Every outer projection is part of my own Hologram informing me about who I am, where my growth areas are and how to be more Me in my true beauty of my individual part of God/Source.

]]>Tue, 09 Aug 2011 05:12:53 -0800http://www.teckian.com/2/post/2011/08/i-have-to-know-my-pain-to-do-anything-about-it.htmlThere can be all kinds of pain; physical, emotional, mental.  Pain can be based on the real or imagined.  It can cripple or be lived with.  All in all, in order for it to be a help, a compass for where one might be leaning into for growth or awareness, it must be noticed.  

This does not mean I have to understand my pain entirely.  I am underlining this.  It means, to acknowledge it is the step to doing something about it. ]]>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 04:23:38 -0800http://www.teckian.com/2/post/2011/08/first-post.htmlThe best way to talk about the type of counseling I do and person I am is to write in a blog style.

I have been able to see patterns since a child.  The type of images that get organized into thought patterns and locked in behaviors.  My father, a medical doctor used to ask me to look at a person in the room and analyze what I saw.

At first, I used to feel a bit confused about the context of what I could see operating in a person.  I had yet to discover what was the motivating factor.  I spent my entire life studying and decifering  how patterns came about, what was their use and how to dismantle unhealthy, out dated, abusive, unhelpful and limiting thoughts.  I became keenly interested in how to 'dis invite' what was not helpful.  

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